The sad history of Anderson Cooper
Anderson Cooper may live a rich and respected lifestyle, but things haven't always been easy for the celebrated journalist and CNN anchor. From an early age, he has battled to overcome more tragic twists and turns than most people will experience in their lifetimes. From suicide to stalking, relive the many dark moments of Cooper's torrid past.
His father died when he was 10
In 1978, Anderson's father, Wyatt Cooper, died while undergoing open-heart surgery. Nearly 40 years later, Anderson remembers fondly the short time he was able to spend with his dad.Assault laws in focus amid Weinstein saga
"He gave me the sense that I had value, that my ideas mattered," he said in an interview with CNN. "That instilled in me a confidence I don't think I would have otherwise had." He admits that losing a parent at a young age darkened his outlook on life. "Loss changes you…" he said. "The world suddenly seems a much different place. More dangerous. The person I was before my father's death, the person I was meant to be was far more open, more interesting than the person I've become. I wish it wasn't so, but the self-reliance I learned has also served me well."
His brother committed suicide
In 1988, Anderson's brother, Carter Cooper, committed suicide by falling to his death from his mother's 14th-floor penthouse in New York City. According to Carter's obituary in The New York Times, the 23-year-old was being treated for depression. No drugs or alcohol were found in his system. Carter died in front of his mother, famed socialite Gloria Vanderbilt, though Anderson does not think his brother's actions were intended to hurt her. "I think he had this impulse that he could not contain," he told Howard Stern (via People) in 2014. "She was just there."Mindy Kaling honors late mother with daughter's name
Carter's death still haunts him
Anderson has spent much of his professional career speaking openly about his struggle to grieve and to move on from his brother's suicide. The tragedy played a key role in his decision to pursue journalism.
"I started going overseas and going to places where life and death was very real and where people were suffering tremendous losses," he told People in 2016. "Hearing their stories and hearing people talk about it sort of helped me to get to a place where I could talk about it." Even today, Anderson admits he'll never truly find closure over what happened. "It doesn't exist. There's no such thing," he told People.LFO singer Devin Lima diagnosed with cancer
Grief engulfed his family
Although Carter's death galvanized a lifelong bond between Anderson and his mother, the one-two punch of losing two family members within the span of ten years took its toll on the mother and son. In their joint book, The Rainbow Comes and Goes, Vanderbilt recalls the painful moments following Carter's suicide, writing, "I wanted to die and I only knew the stream of pain I kept going over and over and over again was what was keeping me alive." She told People that special family moments, such as Christmas, were ultimately destroyed. "I remember the first Christmas we were together after it happened…We went to the movies," she said. "And then we went to the automat, and from then on we've never done anything about Christmas."
Anderson admitted to Howard Stern that he often wondered if he, too, would end up suffering from depression like his brother. "I don't worry about it anymore, but I certainly did at the time," he said.Lena Dunham is 'starting over' following Jack Antonoff breakup
He hid his sexuality from the public
From the moment he rose to fame on CNN, Anderson's sexual identity became the subject of rampant speculation in the tabloids and online. He was often criticized for remaining private about his sexuality rather than using his fame and popularity to advocate publicly for equality and reform.
Finally, in 2012, Anderson discussed his sexuality in an email published via theThe Daily Beast. "The fact is, I'm gay, always have been, always will be," he wrote (via CBS News). About four years later, Anderson shared his reasons for telling the public what his friends and family had known for years. "At a certain point it started to feel like by not saying something, I was saying something," he told theThe Daily Beast. "It seemed like I was uncomfortable about something, which wasn't the case. I was leading a very open gay life with my partner in New York; we'd go to gay bars." In his original email to The Daily Beast, Anderson said he initially remained closeted to the public for personal and professional reasons, which had evolved over the years.Dwayne Johnson receives star on Hollywood Walk of Fame
His boyfriend allegedly cheated on him
In 2012, Anderson's partner of many years, nightclub owner Benjamin Maisani, was photographed kissing another man in a New York City park. According to multiple reports, Anderson learned about the alleged affair while on vacation with Maisani and friends in Croatia. Despite talk that Anderson was heartbroken over the photos, he never addressed the scandal publically and was spotted with Maisani in New York about a week later. Whatever happened behind closed doors, the couple appears to have weathered the storm. The following year, Anderson personally thanked his partner during a speech at the GLAAD Awards.
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In 2013, the New York Post reported that Anderson and Maisani had been stalked by a schizophrenic man named Alex Hausner for more than five years. Hausner, who has said he loves Anderson, reportedly made menacing phone calls to Anderson's home and workplace and tried to break into the couple's New York City home.
Hausner pleaded guilty to felony menacing and harassment charges in April 2014. As such, he was "required to get extensive treatment and was promised what amounts to time served plus five years' probation if he completed the counseling and steered clear of the famous pair," according to the New York Daily News. "Anderson has nothing to fear from me," Hausner told reporters outside Manhattan Supreme Court (via Page Six). "I'm sorry he feels the way he does… I would die for him."
The following year, Hausner alleged in court that Maisani had been threatening him online and thus he feared for his life.The untold truth of Jane Fonda
He was estranged from his half-brother
Anderson was reportedly "devastated" after his half-brother, Christopher Stokowski, abandoned their family following an argument with Vanderbilt about his love life. Stokowski, who is the son of Vanderbilt and conductor Leopold Stokowski, allegedly cut off contact with everyone in 1978, around the same time Anderson's father died, according to Page Six. Stokowski reportedly became a recluse for decades.
This story, at least, has a happy ending. In November 2016, Anderson confirmed that he and Stokowski reconciled following the release of Anderson and Vanderbilt's film, Nothing Left Unsaid, in 2016. The reunion was reportedly facilitated through Stokowski's former fiancée, April Sandmeyer. "I'm very happy for them and glad to have played a part in them being back in touch," she told Page Six.Harry and Meghan’s next big hint